At this moment, we have two dear friends not only mourning the loss of a parent, but also tasked with going through their loved ones’ personal belongings before putting their homes up for sale. For most offspring of a certain generation, this unenviable task has become almost inevitable, filled with emotional and sometimes financial stress. Might be a good idea to start this process before we die, don’t you think? Go through your stuff now so your children won’t have to rent a Dumpster after you kick the bucket. Last week, our kind neighbor across the street, a recent widow, decided to do just that. She has a 20-yard lime green Dumpster sitting on…